Why SIL Housing Needs a Communication Overhaul
I find the power dynamics in SIL (Supported Independent Living) houses challenging. I recognize that I have a lot of privileges, and I understand that there are things one must accept, but I was told these adjustments were short-term. To me, short-term means a couple of weeks to a month. I wonder if people realize the effect this has on me or if I am simply complaining. This past weekend, I requested that people not come into the house, but a newer support worker who was working next door arrived. This worker didn’t know where things were and seemed to not understand that it’s my home. When I push back, it’s because I am reaching my limits. This support worker and another client have behaviors of concern. I can understand someone coming over briefly to ask where things are, but I felt it was an excuse to come over rather than look for things themselves. This is one thing I find particularly frustrating: when I ask for things to be done and the response is to put earphones in because t