What am I missing why I don't do on the ground activism

I’ve had a lot of questions lately about why I don’t dive into “on-the-ground activism” in the disability community. While I respect the passion behind it, my approach centers on accountability, respect for support staff, and a focus on the bigger picture. Here’s why I’ve chosen a different path.

1. Accountability vs. Excuses
   In my experience, accountability is often misinterpreted as negativity. My approach emphasizes responsibility, transparency, and a willingness to learn from mistakes. Yet, I’ve noticed that when I bring up the need for accountability in disability support structures, it often rubs some people the wrong way. Instead of acknowledging areas where we could improve, disagreements are often dismissed as ableist. But accountability isn’t criticism for the sake of it—it’s a crucial part of ensuring that services work as they should.

2. Respecting Support Staff
   A big part of advocacy should be about building respect and understanding for support staff, who work hard within the limits of their roles. Too often, unrealistic expectations lead to burnout and frustration on all sides. Support staff are here to help, but they are not miracle workers or emotional outlets for every frustration. If we could shift the conversation toward appreciating their efforts while understanding the boundaries of their roles, we’d create a more positive, sustainable environment for everyone involved.

3. Focusing on Bigger Issues
   It’s disheartening to see time and energy lost on debates over terminology or logistics, especially when critical issues with the NDIS remain unresolved. Instead of focusing on who buys the office supplies or the latest “correct” label, we could channel that energy into tackling the real barriers people face, such as improving the NDIS and making sure it serves people effectively. We have bigger fish to fry, and every minute spent on minor issues takes away from achieving genuine progress.

4. Accountability Isn’t the Enemy
   Accountability strengthens our community by ensuring that support structures remain effective, ethical, and equitable. It asks us to do better and to improve systems that may be failing those they are supposed to serve. Accountability isn’t anti-disability; it’s about fostering a standard of care that everyone deserves.

At the end of the day, my advocacy is about creating a supportive, effective, and respectful system. So while I may not be involved in on-the-ground activism, I’m still committed to ensuring that voices are heard in ways that truly make a difference.