Consent and disability lets keep the convesation going.

This is going to be a controversial topic and let’s keep the conversation going as we need to talk about it, but we need to define what consent is and let’s see what it is, as consent is going to be different depending on the context. The different types I found are,

·       Informed consent around medical decisions and care so this is knowing the risks and benefits of medical procedures or knowing what the risks of medications are.

·       Intimate consent in relationships, so this is being able to have intimate relationships and be physical with that person, but also knowing that it could be risky and knowing how to maintain relationships as well.

·       Implied consent so this could be for care and self-care tasks they need help with so for someone who needs help dressing or showering so being able to consent to this care. [i]

 

This is where  the  complexity of disability  comes into play as  some people are able to consent but if a person has a mental illness or mental disability this is where it get tricky due to the fact that we need to ask the person can they consent as can they understand the consequences of what they are about to do, either in a relationship or in a medical setting as some people are over medicated as they say yes to the medication or treatment without knowing the full consequences or side effects.  Due to the fact that they want to be “ compliant”  with treatment but the side effect can cause tiredness, over eating or other  unpleasant side effects when there may be other treatment’s open to the person that they aren’t aware of or if they had someone advocating for them they would be able to ask the question so for someone with eleplisy what combination of medications do they need to be on, vs someone with anxiety and working with a mental health professional might be a better option to resolve the anxiety long term.

 


If someone is going into a relationship do they understand the risk’s or benefits of being in a relationship and are they able to have the responsibility to keep a relationship going and understand what goes int a relationship and being able to understand in Australia or  in their part of the world being able to combine finances and the risks of loosing their govement payments if you are able to access them, as some are able to hold down a job and work  part time or casually.

 

This is a shorter post but we need to start talking about it and what consent in disability means as some people with a disability can’t consent or have never been taught about it due to the fact that it hasn’t factored into a parents or care givers  mindset that they need to be taught about relationships and consent as it has been at times actively discouraged disabled people from having relationship’s.


For some people this is true but we need to talk about it to be able to have full and rich lives and for some understanding consent is more about preventing harm to others as well, so if they don’t understand it they are more at risk of engaging with the crime justice system due to the fact they might not understand it’s wrong to tough someone when they say know or to say something sexual at a work place.

 

This is where we need to be aware that this is difficult and challenging to talk about be we need to be able to talk about it like adults in the room as we need to start some  difficult and challenging conversations as well.  This is where we need to have some complex and challenging discussions around inclusion and consent in disability as it then reduces harm and also allows for dignity of risk and people to have a full life and keeps support workers and care givers safe as a person is more aware of what that person is able to do.

 

 So lets start having the conversations that lead to a more inclusive and diverse  environment where people are valued and are able to live a life where decisions are made with them instead of for them.



[i] Consent - Wikipedia

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