a life more ordinary what does it mean lets unpack disability jargon


 This is the first thing we need to know is what is an ordinary life as we have content creators and YouTubers as a legitimate career option these days, we are also seeing that lives are mostly lived online and people who choose to on their weekends go hiking, canoeing or fishing are called extreme, I know that there is such a thing as extreme hiking where you go long distances with very little prep and the city version is to go urban exploring ( generally at night or in abandoned palaces to find interesting things.

In Australia we don’t have much scope for extreme hiking due to the heat and cold but long distance is definitely a thing, but we then get to what is an ordinary life when it comes to disability and this is straight from the NDIS website, about life more ordinary,  and how they use it to decide support’s and this then goes into we need to know what is a disability.

“An ordinary life is a life where you have the same opportunities as people without a disability. An ordinary life is typical or usual for everyone in modern-day Australia. It’s a life where you can pursue your potential and participate in society on an equal basis with others.

Ordinary life will be different for different people. We are all different and come from different cultures and backgrounds. We each have our values, experiences, beliefs and goals.

But some common things can improve the quality of our lives and help us participate equally. These are the things, such as the following, that make up an ordinary life:

  • Positive relationships – with families and informal support networks.
  • Individual autonomy – being free and independent, and having the same opportunities as people without disability.
  • Active involvement in decision-making – including the ability to make meaningful decisions, and exercise choice and control.
  • Using your strengths in ways that provide a challenge and enjoyment.
  • A sense of belonging – to our families, friendship networks, communities, workplaces and society.
  • Active involvement and contribution to society and your community.

An ‘ordinary life’ in the context of the NDIS involves supporting you to:

  • have and maintain good relationships.
  • belong and participate in your community.
  • be involved in making choices about your own life.

One way we can help you have an ordinary life is to support you in accessing mainstream, community or informal support wherever possible. These are the usual supports that everyone in the community uses.

When we fund reasonable and necessary support under the NDIS, we need to make sure they meet the NDIS funding criteria.

When we apply the NDIS funding criteria and make decisions about reasonable and necessary supports, we’re guided by the principles in the law for the NDIS. We also consider how the support will best help you to live an ordinary life.”

 

 We see that it means many different things to different people and that can be, depending on culture, age, and ability this is where the NDIS steps in depending on the severity of your condition or disability and I am confused as to why ADHD isn’t on the list as it is considered a health condition, not a disability but most people with a very disabling form of ADHD do need support or they do end up interacting with the criminal justice system.  It is not on the list of primary conditions  to qualify for the NDIS as it is considered a health condition and that it can be treated or managed with medications or talk therapies but I know that sometimes that isn’t enough to stop bad decisions and this means that people with ADHD are more likely to have bad relationships with others and need the support that they can’t access to stop them making bad decisions.

But this is for people with a disability means having age-appropriate care, not being stuck in a hospital or other clinical environment that isn’t conducive to having an ordinary life, such as attending a Day centre, working or studying, or gaining life skills through a live-in live skills college such as steps colleges that teach life skills to people with disabilities.

I know in the past I have been down on day centres but it is just a matter of finding the one that suits you and your needs for someone who has sensory issues a big loud day centre with music and a house café might not be for you, but a community centre type day centre where you can drop in and do activities at your own pace might be more your thing, so don’t rule them out.

 Now with work, it can be a trickier subject as you need to consider the impact of your disability, on what type of work you can do, we need to be honest with ourselves around this as well, but thinking about what you like and can do you could work with a support worker to help you to find a job that suits you and to take you to it.  I am seeing a lot of people with a disability turn to the internet to do content creation since they can do it on their terms as there is still a lot of disability stigma around what people can and can’t do if they have a disability.

We are also seeing “Group homes” becoming Sil houses to Support independent living and this being that they are much more centred around the people who live in them rather than structured blocks of time and have more medical models.

A Group home was the precursor to a SIL home and could at times be challenging places to live in due to the combination of clients and their needs,  as they could be very behavioural at times with negative behaviours that at times may not have been managed well, we also see that it was  managed on a very strict time schedule, so we see that this transition to supported independent living, where the focus is on independence and not structure. So, teaching life skills and abilities,

We are also seeing more community-based support for families in the form of support workers and caregivers and that means that the family can get caught up on the basics such as laundry, housework and spending quality time as a family without having to feel bad that able-bodied siblings are getting neglected, and they are often forgotten when a person in the family has complex needs and complex needs are what the NDIS is all about in being able to provide support to access the community and provide the foundations to have a healthy life




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